Back in the day

So this article about a letter from a mother to her autistic son doesn’t necessarily relate to me in regards to their relationship, it does take me back. In fact I just realized tonight I’ve been writing this blog for nearly ten years now.

At the time, my son and I were early on in our journey. So in honor of those ten years and for all mothers and fathers of sons or daughters with autism, this letter is for you. It’s entitled “A Letter to my Son with Autism” by Kristen Williams over at The Mighty. We should all write a letter to our child.

Sincerely-

  
  
Autism Librarian

Thank you!

I think in this article, we can all take a page from David’s playbook. I would also suggest that the airlines would do well to point out this story. For that matter, humanity would do well to tell his story.

The article is entitled “Autistic Man Goes into Panic at Airport, then Airline Employee Crouches Down & Whispers in His Ear” by Josh Starling over at InspireMore. As I’ve said before I’m sure, I speak for many parents of children and adults with autism or any special ability for that matter, we need lots more David’s.

Sincerely-

  

Autism Librarian

Lens for love

So tonight I’m going to talk about a website that I just came upon called Lenses for Love and the incredible work that it does. I was actually inspired enough by the story I read recently that I applied to be a photographer. I was so inspired that I did this without having a good enough camera to do the job. I am planning however, to get one over the summer. So meanwhile I will wait and see.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian

Transition Families Support Group

So tomorrow afternoon I’m going to my first Transition Families Support Group meeting with a local group called St. Louis Arc. It lasts only an hour and we’re suppose to bring our  lunch but as of now, I won’t know anyone, so we will see how that goes.

There is another meeting that night entitled LAUNCH Support Group which is for A support group for families of young adults who have the potential to live and work in the community, but face barriers to success.  I’m not sure if I belong there (yet) but we’ll see. One step at a time.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian

Letter from dad

I read this article at work earlier today, a letter that for any parent of a child who is autistic, I’m sure hit close to home.  It wasn’t a letter that necessarily stuck an emotional cord with me, perhaps because for me I’ve been on this path for a while now and I’ve made that same stop but, when I read the part where he talks about ‘Holland’, it took me back to  that place once again:

I’m sure that if Christopher were typical (that’s the word we use instead of “normal” in our world of ‘Holland’, for our developmentally delayed children), I would have not had this conversation with him either.

It was a well-written letter that perhaps begs of us to all do that little thing like sitting down next to someone who is by themselves or just say hi! The reality is, we’re all on our own path but for any of us to make it, we need help. As Mr. Cornelius said:

there’s no easy answer for this…at the end of the day it comes down to compassion, empathy and understanding.

I almost forgot, the article/letter is entitled “This Dad’s Heartbreaking Realization That His Son With Autism Has No Friends over at Pop Sugar and continues on at Facebook.

Sweet dreams!

  

Autism Librarian

Sensory friendly films

Last weekend the kids and I went to see Eddie the Eagle at the movie theater, on opening day no less. We haven’t been to a theater to see a movie in probably a few years, so the sticker shock was a bit of a surprise but I also learned that my daughter actually liked going to what are called sensory friendly films for the same reasons we went for my son.

The lights are on, there are no scary previews and everyone is welcome. If you’re interested in checking these out, here’s a link to the Sensory Friendly Films. As they use to say in the old(er) days, it’s fun for the whole family.

Sincerely-

  

Autism Librarian