Financial literacy

So tonight is one of those nights where I don’t have an article to post, simple a thought to blog about. Tonight, a local group called St. Louis Arc hosted a workshop entitled Financial Literacy and while it was designed for both parents and their kids about finances, it was also very much a work in progress.

They talked a little about how this was a new workshop and so we were the guinea pigs as it were. Afterwards we were to give them input as to how it worked. To be honest with you, it wasn’t quite what I expected, of course my son wasn’t there either, so in that sense it was fine.

Afterwards I filled out my questionnaire as to how it went, both good and bad. In addition, I also got a chance to give my input to the person who runs St. Louis Arc and so that was good. I see her once a month at a meet-up my son and I go to where he gets the chance to hang out with others.

So even though it may not have been all that I expected, it was still very helpful. In fact, as I’ve recently begun to re-focus on my own financial stuff, it’s helped motivate me to work on my son’s stuff as well. Sometimes we all just need a gentle nudge to keep going. Tonight was mine.

Sincerely-

 

Autism Librarian

 

 

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This article tonight really hit home for me in the sense that I remember being in that same place and I agree, it’s what many parents of a child with autism don’t want to say out loud, though not just at the age of 13.

The article is entitled “Here is What No One Says Out Loud about Raising a 13-year old Son with Autism” by Carrie Cariello over at Huffington Post. That said, this is how I responded to the post.

As the father of a young man with autism who is now almost 19, I too had doubts if my son would graduate high school. The amazing parts of this journey however, have been when he surprises me, like when he graduated last year and walked with all of his classmates. Where he goes from here is still a mystery but, those amazing parts are what keep me going.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian

My son and our pet cat

So this week was a tough week. It started last Thursday and ended yesterday as my daughter and I said good-bye to our beloved Oreo. Now while for my daughter and younger son, tears flowed but for my oldest they really didn’t.

That said however, I know Oreo meant a lot to him as well. From all the times my son would jump on my bed and just lay his head on Oreo to the time at school when I learned his password for his computer was Oreoismycat01.

Tomorrow he will be over here at the house for the first time since Oreo passed away, so we will see how he does. At the place where he works today, his bosses let me know that Evan told them about Oreo. I did however also let them know the night before, just so they would be aware of it if he did mention it.

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So, here’s to you Oreo. You really made an impression. I’m glad you were and always will be, one of the family.

Sincerely-

  

Autism Librarian

Family hero’s

So as I sit here, trying to do what I need to do for my son, I came across this article. Written by someone who is himself autistic, Kerry Mango, it was definitely a pick-me-up article for anyone who is the parent of someone with I like to call special abilities.

The article is entitled “To Any Special Needs Parent Who’s Having One of Those Days ” over at Kerry Mango’s website. Well worth the read, for any parent having one of those days.

If you’re a sibling of someone with special abilities, he’s also written an article especially for you. It’s entitled “To the Siblings Who Love Someone on the Autism Spectrum“. Again, well worth the read.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian

 

Let’s talk about autism

With Autism Awareness Day coming up next month, April 2, 2018 to be exact, this article turns out to be a great conversation started on that topic. The article is entitled “Beth Hiatt Writes ‘Let’s Talk About Autism’ Article for School Magazine ” by Elisabeth Brentano over at The Mighty. So with that in mind, let’s talk but you don’t have to wait until April 2nd. Any day is a good day.

Sincerely-

     

Autism Librarian

 

Kissability

What a great name for a book and it’s also a great follow up to my previous post entitled Dating. Tonight’s post is about the book Kissability, written by Katherine, a woman who has cerebral palsy and is confined to a wheel chair.

The post is entitled “Who I Can Talk to about Dating and Disability“, courtesy of Easterseals. I just checked my library and unfortunately, they don’t have it, so I guess I’ll just have to recommend it.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian

Dating

I must say this is a topic I’ve not approached really with my son, perhaps one day but maybe I need to start reading up on it now and this article is probably a good place to start. The article is entitled “Ten Steps to Help a Teen With Autism Navigate Dating” over at Autism Speaks. That said, I guess I’ll read it tonight and print it up at work tomorrow. There’s always a new adventure around the corner.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian

 

Working at the car wash

Okay, there is a song by almost that same title entitled Working at the Car Wash Blues by my favorite singer of all time, Jim Croce but unlike Jim’s song, there are no blues here.

The video here is about a father who started up a car wash to hire his son and others like him. The video is entitled “Car Wash Hires People with Autism” over at the 60 Seconds Docs Presents website.

So as I sit here, my son appears ready to move on from the Vocational Skills Program with the Special School District of St. Louis County, I am pondering what’s next for him.

He does love cars but I think our next step is to take him over to a car shop that a friend of my brother’s owns and see if he can hang out there again. We’ve done it once and we’re invited to come back. So that’s our next step.

Sincerely-

     

Autism Librarian

Backstory

If I’ve learned nothing else in life, it’s that everyone has their own backstory and until you hear that story, you’ll never know what it is.  So this story tonight is about someone telling someone else their backstory.  All I can say is it’s a very powerful story.

The article is entitled  “To the Person Who Left Me Awestruck After I told You About My Son’s Autism” by Caitlin Johnson over at The Mighty. Like I said before, we all have one and while no two are alike, they are really all just as powerful. Hmmm….sounds just like autism.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian

To my daughter

When I read this article, the first think that came to my mind was, I hope one day my daughter feels this way. Right now she’s struggling with her relationship with her brother and as I think I said before, it’s stressful for all of us.

Anyway, the article is entitled “To the Man Who Said My Brother’s Autism Would Wreck My Family” by Freya O’Horo over at The Mighty. Sometimes life is just plain hard, all we can do is take it one day at a time.

Sincerely-

   

Autism Librarian